How Matthew 7:6 Teaches Us to Share the Gospel with Wisdom

There is a timeless truth in Jesus’ words in Matthew 7:6, a truth that calls us to reflect deeply on the wisdom of sharing our faith. In a single verse, Jesus reminds us that while the message of the gospel is meant to be shared, not every heart is prepared to receive it.

Let’s look into the heart of this passage and explore how it applies to our everyday encounters.

“Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you.” – Matthew 7:6 (ESV)

The Value of Spiritual “Pearls”

Imagine, if you will, holding a strand of beautiful, luminous pearls. Each pearl represents something deeply valuable – the joy of God’s grace, the peace that comes from knowing Jesus, the promise of eternal life.

Now, imagine casting these precious pearls in front of a wild, foraging pig, a creature focused only on filling its stomach, completely unaware of the treasure underfoot. It’s almost absurd to picture, isn’t it?

Yet, this is the vivid image Jesus gives us. Our spiritual insights, experiences, and the good news of the gospel are precious treasures.

They are not to be carelessly shared with those who would disrespect them. But this doesn’t mean we are to withhold the gospel; rather, it’s a call to discernment and wisdom, ensuring that we share God’s truth effectively and with sensitivity to each situation.

When to Speak, When to Hold Back

One of the hardest lessons in sharing our faith is learning to discern where our words will take root and where they may only provoke hostility.

I remember a time, early in my ministry, when I was invited to share the gospel on a college campus. We were given specific courtyards and limited times, and while these settings can be fruitful, they can also be challenging.

One day, I was having a conversation with a student when a professor, who was openly atheistic, approached us.

At first, I thought this was an opportunity to respectfully share my beliefs with someone who might challenge them. But as the conversation went on, it became clear that he wasn’t there to learn or discuss; he wanted to argue. For over an hour, we went back and forth, and during that time, many students passed by who might have been open to hearing about Jesus.

I realized later that I had poured precious time and energy into a conversation that bore no fruit. That time could have been used to reach those whose hearts were open.

From that experience, I learned that sometimes, the most loving thing we can do is to be mindful of who we’re engaging with. While Jesus calls us to share the gospel with all, He also reminds us to approach each situation with discernment. We are not called to argue endlessly or cast our “pearls” in places where they’ll only be trampled underfoot.

The Balance of Boldness and Discernment

Jesus’ words here don’t imply that we should judge others as unworthy of the gospel. After all, none of us is “worthy” – we are all saved by grace alone. But He does call us to practice discernment in how and when we share His message.

This wisdom isn’t always easy. We want everyone to know God’s love, to experience His mercy. But sometimes, pushing the message too hard can close doors rather than open them. There’s a balance we must strike, a blend of boldness and discernment, knowing when to speak and when to quietly pray for those whose hearts aren’t yet ready.

How to Respond to Those Who Reject the Message

In moments when we encounter resistance, there are still ways to plant seeds without forcing the conversation. Here are a few approaches that can help us honor Matthew 7:6 while still reaching out in love:

1. Respond with Grace, Not Frustration: When someone dismisses or mocks our faith, it can be tempting to argue or defend ourselves. But Jesus’ example was one of gentle responses and calm patience. Instead of pushing the gospel onto those who aren’t ready, respond kindly and let your actions reflect Christ’s love.
2. Pray for Receptive Hearts: Just because someone isn’t open to the gospel today doesn’t mean they’ll never be. Keep them in prayer. God can soften the hardest of hearts over time. In many cases, it’s through our silent prayers and steady kindness that people become curious about what sets us apart.
3. Look for Signs of Readiness: Sometimes, people may resist at first but come back later with questions. Pay attention to these signs. When someone shows even a flicker of curiosity or openness, be ready to share your testimony. But if someone is only interested in debating or deriding, it’s okay to step back.
4. Cultivate a Life that Speaks for Itself: The way we live often speaks louder than any words we can say. Show patience, humility, and forgiveness in your everyday interactions. Many times, people are won over by witnessing the fruits of the Spirit in our lives rather than through a single conversation.
5. Trust in God’s Timing: We don’t have to pressure others into faith. Trust that God is at work, even when you can’t see it. He knows the right time and place to open someone’s heart.

When We’re Called to Be Silent, We’re Still Called to Love

It’s a powerful reminder that sharing the gospel isn’t only about words. It’s about living in such a way that others see Christ through us. When Jesus says not to cast pearls before swine, He’s not telling us to withhold love or compassion from anyone. Quite the opposite – He’s encouraging us to love others enough to approach each encounter wisely, praying and seeking God’s guidance.

There will be times when words fall short, and in those times, we can still plant seeds. We can show grace, offer forgiveness, extend patience, and lift them up in prayer. God can work in ways we might never imagine, and He is always moving in the hearts of those around us, even when we can’t see it.

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Final Reflections

Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 7:6 is a call to wisdom, to protect the precious truths He’s entrusted to us. It’s also a reminder that sharing our faith is a journey that requires patience and discernment. There may be moments when we feel discouraged or misunderstood, but that’s when we must lean into God’s strength. He has a plan for each person we encounter, and His timing is always perfect.

So, as we continue to share the message of the gospel, let’s remember to balance boldness with discernment, to show love even when our words may not be heard, and to trust that God is always at work.

Devotion on Matthew 7:1-5 found here.

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