Let’s be honest: loving our enemies is probably one of the hardest things Jesus asks us to do.
If you’re anything like me, your first reaction to someone who’s hurt you might be anger or frustration. It’s natural to want to protect ourselves, maybe even seek revenge. But Jesus flips this idea upside down.
In Matthew 5:45, He says, “so that you may prove yourselves to be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.”
Think about that for a second. God lets the sun rise and the rain fall on everyone—whether they’re following Him or not. He doesn’t pick favorites, and we’re called to reflect that same kind of love.
But how do we actually live that out?
What Does It Really Mean to Love Your Enemies?
Maybe you’re wondering, “What does loving my enemy even look like in real life?”
I get it—it’s a tough concept to wrap our minds around. We often think of love as something reserved for family, friends, and people who treat us well.
But Jesus takes it a step further, asking us to extend that love even to those who’ve hurt us.
Loving your enemies doesn’t mean you have to agree with them or even like what they did. It’s more about how we choose to respond.
Are we going to hold onto anger and resentment? Or are we going to let God’s love flow through us and show grace instead?
The Everyday Struggle of Letting Go
Let’s face it—we’ve all been there. Maybe it’s that coworker who undermines you, or a family member who always seems to stir up drama.
It’s easy to get caught up in the moment, isn’t it? Your natural reaction might be to retaliate or cut them out of your life. But Jesus tells us to do something radically different.
Think about the last time someone hurt you. What if instead of holding onto that grudge, you chose to pray for them instead? Sounds crazy, right? But that’s exactly what Jesus asks us to do: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44).
It doesn’t mean you’re saying what they did was okay. It means you’re releasing yourself from the burden of anger and letting God take control.
Why Should We Bother?
Why should we even try? Jesus gives us the answer: when we love like this, we show the world that we are truly children of God.
God’s love isn’t selective. He doesn’t withhold His blessings from people just because they don’t follow Him. The sun rises on everyone. The rain falls on everyone.
So, when we love our enemies, we’re imitating the same grace that God shows every day.
You know that feeling when someone shows you unexpected kindness? It can stop you in your tracks. That’s what loving your enemies does. It’s unexpected, and it points people straight to God.
It’s Not About Being a Doormat
Now, loving your enemies doesn’t mean you become a doormat or let people walk all over you. Boundaries are important.
But it does mean that you’re not letting bitterness take root in your heart. It means you’re trusting God to handle the justice part, and you’re focusing on showing grace.
Have you ever noticed how holding onto anger or grudges only ends up hurting you? It’s exhausting to carry that weight around. Jesus invites us to lay that down and trust Him instead.
How Do We Actually Do This?
So, practically speaking, how do we love our enemies? It might look different for each of us, but here are a few ways to start:
- Pray for them: This might feel impossible at first, but start small. Ask God to help you see them the way He does.
- Forgive: Even if they haven’t apologized, forgiveness is about releasing the hold they have on your heart.
- Respond with kindness: When they expect anger, respond with patience. When they expect coldness, show warmth.
It’s a process, and it won’t happen overnight. But each time you choose love over anger, you’re taking a step closer to reflecting God’s heart.
Letting God’s Love Shine Through Us
At the end of the day, loving our enemies isn’t something we can do on our own. It takes God working in us.
But when we allow Him to soften our hearts, we start to see people—even the difficult ones—the way He sees them.
Just like the sun shines on everyone, God’s love is available to all of us, and we get the privilege of sharing that with the world.
So, next time you find yourself frustrated or hurt by someone, remember: you don’t have to hold onto that anger. You can let it go, and let God’s love shine through you instead.
Devotion on Matthew 5:43-44 found here.
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